This is the FCB podcast Network. This is pillow Talk with Alie Michelle, the FCBING podcast at work. Hey, yuh, it's Alie Michelle and you are listening to Pillow Talk with Alie Michelle. Today, I have a very special guest. Her name is Jessica so Tilly. She is an incredible woman. She is full of knowledge. She is literally a walking encyclopedia. Today I had the honor of picking her brain just a little bit, and I hope from what we talk about it moves you in a way to not necessarily believe everything that you see on social media and not to believe every single news outlet. I just want you to hear a real woman who is in the field, getting knowing and feeling and experiencing everything that goes on behind closed doors. And with that we are rolling into the show all Jesse. Hello, Okay, if you want to tell everybody who you are and what is it that you do. My name is Jessicasatility and I specialize in de escalation and mental health. So I work a lot of cases that are considered extreme and nature and essentially I work on de escalating the situation, de escalating my client, and then I'm also advocating for their well being at the same time, making sure that they're getting the care that they need and also that they're being placed in safe environments and then continuing with their healing process. So basically, when people go through really traumatizing situations, there's people like me that essentially work with those people hands on to kind of help them cope through, you know, pretty life changing in extremely traumatizing situations, and basically our goal is just to make sure that they can live a pretty normal life. When you experienced trauma on such like a large scale, it tends to kind of disrupt your brains chemistry, so we kind of work on rewiring brains. So it's just a little bit of my background and kind of what I do. And you said, you have a doctorates in metaphysics, so it's kind of like the study of everything essentially, So I just have like little knowledge of just anything that you could possibly think of. And this kind of allows me to have like a pretty big scale of empathy and understanding for people, even in situations that I might not have been in myself. I'm able to comprehend the situation and essentially I could feel what they're feeling. So it really helps me in gauging the best type of treatment for them as far as like the healing process after experiencing trauma. That's super cool. So you're like a real life person encyclopedia a little bit like knowledge about how things work essentially, So yeah, that would be a pretty good And I love it. I love it, and I absolutely adore you. And I've never met you, but yeah, I followed you for a long time and I just I'm so intrigued by everything that you do, by your vibes and your positivity, and you know, I've read all your status is. But I want to ask what made you want to go into that feeld essentially? Um, probably just my own trauma. UM. I kind of really grew up feeling like I was misunderstood a lot. I just went through like a lot of things that I guess most people my age probably wouldn't experience. And so instead of letting the trauma kind of defined who I was as a person, M, you know, I met somebody who just like really changed my life and my views, and M kind of got me into doing yoga. So I am a yoga teacher. I don't teach as much anymore. Um, I kind of focus more on m kind of what I do now de escalation. But I did teach for a pretty long time, and I actually did yoga mostly for like children, um, that have been sexually abused. That was a great treatment method that we had utilized, and I did that for a while. But things just changed and I kind of just shifted, you know, my area of focus. But kind of you know, when I started that, and the healing that I did within myself was just like wow, Like I literally, you know, completely changed my whole entire life just by making this decision to heal. And so I was like, man, if I can just teach people how to do this, then you know, so many more people could be living a more fulfilling life because a lot of times people will experience traumatic events and they're like, okay, this is it. Like I'm just gonna be this, you know, damaged goods for the rest of my life. You know that to be the case. And so I guess that's where I kind of was like, Yeah, where can I help people and get back on track? You know? That's amazing, UM, really really inspiring. I'm like I feel like this big I'm like, you know, um, no, I think what you do is extremely important. I think mental health is a huge, UM misunderstanding in this country. I don't think it's enough attention. I don't think it's not anything. So I think people like you are really, really, really important. So you said you were talking you get you handle like children and stuff. So the cases that have been coming out in Cleveland recently with all the missing children, do you like tackle that as well? I do work some cases in Ohio, but they're on contract basis, so if they're very extreme cases, more than likely UM. You know, I probably assisted in those UM, but basically, since I'm contracted by the state, essentially it's whatever case that they deem UM, extremely traumatic, UM, all across the board. So it really just depends. Sometimes UM. I do get subpoena for opinions UM based on certain cases what I would deem UM. I guess you could say satanic in nature. UM worked on cases like that in Ohio, which I can't. I just there's UM a lot of open things with what's going on in Ohio right now that UM certain things that have happened within Cleveland UM have kind of stirred up UM. I don't know the right word too. Yeah, I don't know what to do. I don't know because I would I would try to say one, but I don't know necessarily, were like, what's what Ali, we're going down? I would say. Most I can say is there's going to be a pretty huge bust um happening in Um. That just gave me goose bumps. Yes, yeah, that's something that I do know that is going to happen. I'm not sure when they um are going to be making those major indictments. They've made a couple so far, but there's bigger names on that list. Um Dad, I'm sure that's why it's taking so long for it to come out. Um. Yeah, I feel they like cover as much like that happens um, as far as like child trafficking rings, they kind of like, you know, leave it to like the small They don't talk about it, like saying the big ones just don't pick it up. But it works out that way. But so I'm okay, go ahead, go ahead. There has been um a lot of bus being made mostly smaller people, um, but the big ones I'm hoping that they kind of come out pretty soon because it is it should be eye opening for a lot of people. Yeah. Yeah, And you know, I've recorded a few shows regarding the sex Rings, and and I don't think people understand the severity of it and how deep it actually goes when you talk about it your college conspiracy theorists and whatever. But it's the little stories should start telling people like, well, they have to come from somewhere. It's not just a coincidence that's you know, a school here, or a principle here, or you know, it's it's I'm getting goose bumps because it's stuff like really gets me going um because it's kids. Kids don't deserve to go through it. Nobody deserves to go through that amount of bull crap that these predators. I just can't. It makes me so mad. I just want to start shaking about it. But I think that's really instant, like inside of that you said that, Yeah, I am so excited for that to happen. Not that it's like good news, but it's like finally like we're finally getting the answers that these kids deserve, the justice that these kids deserve, because I've just heard actually before we got on here that in May alone, thirty missing kids are like thirty kids missing in Cleveland alone in the month of May. So, um, I haven't seen the statistic for Junior, but that is and then you know the lawmaker are the one of the police officers. I wrote it down. I was like, he said, it's one of the most extraordinary numbers that you know, he's witnessed in his career. So I'm like, I just, oh, I just can'tnot wait. M right. I know a lot of times, like when you like hear stuff like that, like it like like he said, like it will literally just wait to you're freaking blood boil. But like the day, like a lot of people, I've just come to realize, like unless you've like sat there and listened to like those cases, you don't really think it happens like in your neighborhood, like you know your friends kids like it literally Like I mean, just this week a flown I've worked, I just did. It was multiple cases because it was multiple children within a daycare. Oh oh my gosh. I just imagine like taking dropping your kids off to taycare, not even at school, just kids and you know, all of a sudden they're coming home and you know, saying somebody was like touching them and like doing this an approch with them, and I mean it literally happens everywhere in the places where as a parent you expect you're going to trust that your kids are going to be safe there. And I think a lot of people have just been so accustomed to having blow the like you know, the childs have track rings off, and then as well as like people coming into these places of where kids supposed to be protected and you know, they're hiring people that want to abuse children, and it's I don't think that's on purpose. Do you think they're hiring these people on purpose? Yeah, I think, you know, to be more inclusive to trans rights and you know, all of that stuff, which is great, you know, nothing against being trans. But however, you know there are people that do abuse that and they do or their advantage and it's it's at the you know, loss of kids innocence. And that's just on the unfortunate side effect of you know, normalizing stuff like that. And it sounds able to say, but it's just the reality of what's happening, you know, cause and effect, the image you know, eventually they'll take from mind exactly and that's what you know, that's my huge argument when people are like, you know, message me and like how can you I'm like, it's not the community itself. Like people who are transitioning I personally know they do. They're very private. They don't want anybody to necessarily know you would you walk into bathroom you don't know. You know, normal transgenders don't make it a big deal. They've never had they never you know what I'm saying. It's those that it's it's those that are who want to pray and the innocent. You know, we're in a bathroom, that's what you're vulnerable in there. Yeah, but we're going to go to break so we will touch back on this because this this has me going it's the same FBI under JA that tried to blamail Martin Luther King Junior to commit suicide that is now targeting its other political opponents. And so this isn't a partisan point. I just think it's important to see that. But I think that part of my view is bureaucracy itself is part of the problem. So at the local level, you've got local police and you've got local prosecutors. You don't have a giant investigative bureaucracy sitting in between. At the federal level, you have US Marshals, which, as best I can tell, has not been at all politicized agency. They just carry out their responsibilities. And then you've got a Department of Justice, which I think has some problems of its own, but that's the prosecutor. You don't need this giant bureaucracy sitting in between. And you know what the irony is, It's still the j Edgar Hoover Building of the FBI. It's literally the name of the building that people report into every day. Check out our interview with Republican presidential candidate of VEC Ramaswami, episode three fifty eight of The Outlaws Radio show Find us wherever you get your podcast. That's out Laws, The Outlaws Radio Show, NFCB podcast. This part of the show, I just wanted to touch base on local news that has been happening in my town and the greater Cleveland area. It's insane, it's crazy. It needs to be talked about and needs to be screamed from the rooftops. And with that, let's roll into it. Okay, we are back with Jesse and we were just talking about the transgender and the whole thing about children trafficking and whatnot. But during break we were talking about all sorts of things and censorship came up. So I wanted to just kind of touch base with that. You have been censored by the big tech mafia as well, so wanting your voice to be out here, I want people to know who and what you do and the incredible things that you have done in your life so far so far, because you gotta be more. So yeah, it banned on Instagram. I had posted about so, um there's a guy like not that one ago. I can't remember his name off the top of my head, um, but he was actually caught wandering money for the election and basically lobbying for Biden essentially, and he had like this like startup, like tech company or something like that. Maybe it was like sales, I can't remember. I think, yeah, yeah, for his name is like Freedman or something. Um, but he actually was like essentially taking over for Jeffrey Epstein. And so I as soon as I talked about that, UM, I had actually like posted on TikTok like my video explaining it, and it got taken down, and then I posted it to Instagram, um, and you know, talking about how they took my video down immediately and then they just instantly locked me out of my Instagram and basically a band I can't make any other Instagram basically it told me they'll delete it. Essentially, that is insane. That is that if that's not telling the world something, I don't know what else is. Because they won't let you have an account period, They probably are like, look do you have Oh no, she's not getting out. Nope, she knows too uh I girl, that is crazy. I think like thirty two thousand followers, Like that was pretty up there. Yeah. Yeah, Like the more that you have, like the more likely they are to ban your account, um, just because they know that you'll probably as soon as you make a new one, get the people the audience back and the less people that hear you the better. So okay, so they were like, we're not getting her out, you know, the censorship know she knows too much. She knows too much. That is just that's extraordinary, you know. And you said you had thirty two thousand followers and then um yeah, they essentially, like I think like once you get to you know, a certain threshold with like followers and audience, they're like more likely to just completely ban you from the platform. But if you have like a lower following, I feel like they tend to be like a little more lenient because they're like, you know, like who's going to see your stuff? You know, it's like a large following. They're like, oh, okay, like people might share this, this can reach more people as a potential, So let's just cut them off completely before people start listening to them, right, start offing you essentially? Yeah, uh yeah, exactly. And I mean I don't have as much knowledge as you do into in the fields that you have knowledge, and but I do say some things and they get mad. I haven't got completely banned yet, knock on wood, um. But you know, it's it's just a weird time we live. And we live in such a weird time where we're trying to figure out like the laws of the internet. I saw a meme it was like I'm sick of living through all these life experiences or something and only being thirty or something like that, you know, and because we have lived through so much stuff and we're in the for the generation that grew up on you know, internet and cell phones and what it means and I you know, is it do you in your opinion, in your your do you think it's on purpose all this control or do you think it's you know, they're just no. No, I think they know exactly what they're doing. I literally think we're essentially and like the tournament show, Um, I think that they could certain things for us to view, and you know, based off of that reaction, UM, I think that they monitored that pretty closely. And um, you know, based off of that reaction that they get, they kind of like push the envelope more and more. So it's like funny that you said, like you know, people are like like what the heck is like happening? Like I feel like I'm experiencing like all these mess up things. But like that's like, you know, essentially syops, you know where they create these scenarios. Basically they create problems and then provide the solution and basically we're all just like guinea pigs. And you know, they want to see who's gonna you know, trust in them and yeah, you know rebel. Yeah, yeah, that's like you know, that's what I say about them. The vaccine mandates, it was you know, you know, it was people were coming. I mean, like Ali, like should I get it, absolutely not, but again at such your personal opinion, but like it was an experiment too to see who was following and who wasn't. And you know, and that's why I'm getting so like weird about the um the you know, labeling of you know who she they or you know what I'm saying, like you're putting yourself in boxes. They can easily pick that box. Pick Oh we want this group, you know, it's it's so it's so scary. Um, I want to just touch based on one more thing and then we're gonna call it a day. But so you um, the indoctumation of kids in school, UM, that's something I'm really you know, passionate about. And I've talked to several other women on this um their pro homeschooling and whatnot. But with the with how it's leaning towards now you know, it being Pride month and you know, um, but they're pushing it on our kids. How do you how do you feel that? Um? Friends of all, why I don't even consider it Prade month. I mean, technically it's my birthday month, but happy birthday that I talked about, I mean, but like you know, I mean, I don't care what people do with their life, like live your best life. You know, I'm all for that. However, you know, as far as like children go in that, I think that none of that should be a topic of discussion with children. I mean, your frontal love doesn't even fully develop to you're twenty five years old. And that's coming from somebody that literally studies trauma and brains. I mean, you can't even fully grasp what is happening to you. You don't even know what an orgasm is. You don't even know like a type of feeling that you're experiencing. You don't you can even grasp. Your brain can't even understand what is happening to you. And like, I kind of go, why would we have this conversation with kids when like they literally can't even grasp why to post the equal two and why it is supposed to equal four and then when you add two and four together that actually makes six. They can't even comprehend that, So how would they? And oh, I'm a boy, even though I totally agree, you know girl parts, Like, I mean, yeah, that's just persuading their parents are like, hey, you know what you want to wear a dress? Guess what we're gonna call you Sally Sue now, and you know you have babies and have a period. It's like right right, I'm oh, it makes me so mad and like I don't I'm like a So I'm really weird when it comes to like health class in school. I personally me personally alma. I don't think the school system should be teaching our kids about their privates in any sort of way. And I understand that some parents don't have that conversation but have it with your doctor, but don't depend on the school. And so many parents are becoming so comfortable with the school having so much power over their kids. Yeah. My friend's school handbook it said when kids are in school, we act as parents. Like that is wrong. And I've signed it without reading it this year and I read it like after I signed, and I was like, I should not have signed that, you know, because that gives them all, you know, it gives them the grounds to discipline in the way that they feel. And I've had conversations with them, and the school system is so weird. Now. I think it's always been weird. I just think people are awake to it. Yeah, And if you are, you sharing that that knowledge with your frontal lobe and she knows what she's talking about now. So I really appreciate you coming on and you're you're such a an intelligent woman and so empowering and so inspiring to so many women. I hope, you know, people start listening to you. And and you're only on Facebook now right, Yeah, I mean, I fuck, but I have like this band where it says like it's like a warning thing, so like if I post anything, it doesn't you know, Yeah, maybe we'll have you on again. You can tell us more. I want people to know yeah, the human encyclopedia. I just want them to know you. I want, um, you know, I want you to empower so many more people. And I think it's so unfair that you are being shut out in the way you are. Um, it's just it's it's insane. So thank you for coming on and sharing your light with me. I'm super fan girling still like I girl like you because I like so I'm like, heck, yeah, I will definitely be on there. That's like, well, I mean so much. Thank you. Thank you for listening to Pillow Talk with Ellie Michelle. I am your host Ellie Michelle and you just heard Jessica so o'tilly. I hope she moved you in the way that she moves me every day. She's such an incredible person, so full of life and so bright and so intelligent. But don't forget to follow me on TikTok at, Alie Underscore Michelle, Instagram, Alie Underscore Michelle one two, and don't get to subscribe to the podcast, share with your friends, like it, And with that, I will see y'all next week. This has been a presentation of the FCB podcast Network, where Real Talk lives. Visit us online at FCB podcasts dot com.
